Men who have wives at home somehow thinks that the woman job is much easier than his, because she stays at home while he goes out to a job to provide for his family. This is so wrong an it’s a big MYTH that fools people. Women task at home is never ending and even more that what the husband would accomplish in his daily job. Yes he brings home money to supply the family needs but that’s not all to life.
Wives have to cook, clean, wash, iron/press and most of all see about the children, getting them ready for school, doing home work with them. Having to take and understand most of her children's problems while the male figure is at work. Specifically speaking about toddlers at that age children seems to be very miserable, harden and naughty and you must be a patient loving and a wisdom filled parent. Sometimes you can fly off your handle when you become stressful and angry. Little children would do just what you told them don’t do make mess etc, while the mother have to be cleaning up whole day.
A mother is the one who has to make time to teach the children their ABC, help them say their first words, make their first steps, help them hold their baby bottles/cups. Help them to write and train them properly (manners etc) the father seldom does those things he’s not around for those first moments
She has to be talking none stop to the children taking all those pressures while the dad is at work. When he comes home is just to eat, bathe and then he’s looking to sleep so he don’t know half the time what she faced for the day. Clearly he doesn’t have the stress of the children. Women have to think of what menu to cook or make for three times a day, seven days a week sometimes more. She has to do all the washing or partly all depending on the children’s age. She has to do the house cleaning which is never ending especially when you have an inconsiderate family who would just make mess not considering mummy have to clean it up.
Wives have to be physically, emotionally, psychologically and mentally strong to cope with her every day tasks. I read once where a man complained and whined about how his wife sits home and does nothing. While he kills himself to provide so they decided to switch jobs and guess what on the first day the husband failed miserably. He could not do any of the things his wife has to do every day. He burn the dinner, the children never went to sleep, every time he attempted to clean he had to run and sit down.
Fathers love their children but they are not emotionally and mentally strong as women to take pressure/s. They boast with their mouths but inside they cannot take it. Women can take a lot of stress and cope with it.
What happen to most of us humans is that we see things and tell ourselves it’s simple to do that. But when it’s given to you to do you suddenly finds out it’s not that easy. Washing, cooking, cleaning, ironing, handling the children looks pretty easy to men but gave them the swap and they cannot make even half or quarter of it. Don’t judge things by how they look.
Men you need to take in consideration that your wife has a much harder task than you do if you are honest you would acknowledge it and treat them with much more respect and understanding.
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